Its a...

Gal.

Our 1st baby is gg to be a gal!
Im so happy that I got what I wanted, but yet at the same time, felt disappointed that I might disappoint my papa in law. Theres already 2 grandsons in the family, but he was hoping that mine would be another boy. He's been saying stuffs like, " Im sure its a boy." to almost everyone.
Upon realising its a gal, he didnt show any disappointment, but said things like " Gals oso nice!" "As long as bb is healthy, thats all that matters"
Somehow I felt he said those words coz nuthin can be done, n probably to hide his disappointment.
Mum in law is more excited tho, this is gg to be her 1st gal grandchild, and in fact, the 1st gal grandchild to carry the family surname.
On my side, I told the news to my mom, after numerous unsuccessful calls, when i got thru to her, she gave crap excuses like she changed a new ringtone, n didnt know it was her phone thats ringing, yet at the same time, she can press the cancel button to cancel my call....duhz.. her explanation doesnt make sense at all. Anyway, she wasnt enthusiastic or anythin. In fact, she didnt even call me since feb till now, not to mention any nourishing soups I was expecting from her.
Oh well. I have oreadi learnt not to care less.
Someone mentioned in MSN that " I finally realised the importance of my mom only after being a mom myself.."
I ponder over that statement for the longest time n felt, nah.